How to Talk to Girls at Parties

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How to Talk to Girls at Parties

R

2018

1h 42m

Romance

Sci-Fi

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Worlds collide when Enn, a shy teenager in the 1970s London, meets the beautiful and rebellious Zan at a party. They set in motion the ultimate showdown between their rivaling worlds and test the limits of how far they will go for true love.

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Critics Consensus

How to Talk to Girls at Parties has energy and ambition, but is ultimately too unfocused to do much with either -- or develop its themes into a cohesive whole.

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Christopher Orr

The Atlantic

06/18/2018

One of the worst ways to make a cult movie is to set out to make a cult movie.

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Adam Graham

Detroit News

06/01/2018

C-

Mitchell brings a lively visual sensibility to the screen, so at least it looks stellar. Everything else -- the film's tone, its message, its very purpose -- is caught between two different worlds.

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Nell Minow

Movie Mom

05/31/2018

B+

Punk in this film is not angry so much as revolutionary, fueled by ideas and optimism. That may seem like an alien idea today, but Mitchell makes it seem right on time.

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Benedict Seal

Vague Visages

12/05/2023

How to Talk to Girls at Parties is spirited but doesn’t have anything new to say. And it has an embarrassing relationship with its female characters. The film undoubtedly captures something; it’s just nothing I have any desire to watch.

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Brian T. Carney

Washington Blade

12/08/2022

A delicious and delirious mess, How to Talk to Girls at Parties is destined to be a cult classic.

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Juan Barquin

INTO

09/17/2021

How to Talk to Girls at Parties navigates finding one's true community, literally allowing an alien to try and find a home in a punk human world, and there's familiarity...

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Anaclara G

@RT80424720 06/27/2025

Its my favorite movie! Its strange and creative. Amazing soundtrack. The end always makes me cry 💔

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Rosetta C

@RT33440346 03/29/2025

The best part about this movie was the soundtrack. Between the Breaths played, and I ascended. It was pretty generic, I don't expect much from these types of films.

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P.G. S

@RT96642174 10/22/2024

A delightful coming of age story, but not for those with a low weird tolerance. The outsider frame of reference words for both punks and aliens, so their romance tracks to me. A rewatchable cult classic. This movie lit me up. I'm glad a friend turned me on to it.

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Bobby G

@RT70351399 07/29/2024

The low scores on this film make no sense. Nicole Kidman is stellar. It’s so weird and so beautiful. Fanning is fantastic. This movie is a must see for anyone you can appreciate original thought and creative thinking. Beautifully weird and a blast to experience. Excellent film.

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Jim S

@js2727272727 11/20/2023

What a great movie. The bad reviews are the audience's fault. This is not a middle-of-the-roader film. It's bonkers. The world could use more punk rock right now. The film is part comedy, part sci-fi, part 70s punk fanzine, part comic book, part wacky high school play, part serious drama. It's the kind of film that should be a cult classic. I think our current moment is just devoid of creativity and, well, punk rock. It should gain a following.

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Zuzka U

@RT20434421 09/06/2023

Sooo punk, i love it sometimes maybe chaotic but amazing.

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Synopsis

Worlds collide when Enn, a shy teenager in the 1970s London, meets the beautiful and rebellious Zan at a party. They set in motion the ultimate showdown between their rivaling worlds and test the limits of how far they will go for true love.

Director: John Cameron Mitchell
Producer: Iain Canning, Howard Gertler, John Cameron Mitchell, Emile Sherman
Screenwriter: Philippa Goslett, John Cameron Mitchell
Distributor: A24
Production Co: See-Saw Films, Little Punk
Rating: R (Sexual Content|Nudity|Language Throughout|Some Drug Use)
Genre: Romance, Sci-Fi
Original Language: English
Release Date (Theaters): May 25, 2018, Limited
Release Date (Streaming): Jun 5, 2018
Box Office (Gross USA): $80.4K
Runtime: 1h 42m