Your Friends & Neighbors

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Your Friends & Neighbors

R

1998

1h 39m

Comedy

Drama

LGBTQ+

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Restless and unhappy, two couples get caught up in infidelity and deception. Barry (Aaron Eckhart) is a sullen businessman married to Mary (Amy Brenneman), a writer who is unsatisfied with their relationship. Mary begins an affair with Jerry (Ben Stiller), a smug theater professor and husband of her friend, Terri (Catherine Keener), who is also a writer. Adding to the adulterous mix are Cary (Jason Patric), a callous doctor, and Cheri (Nastassja Kinski), an art-gallery assistant.

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Critics Consensus

Though it may strike some viewers as cold and unpleasant, Neil LaBute's Your Friends & Neighbors is an incisive critique of sexual politics wrapped up in a scathing black comedy.

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Verne Gay

Newsday

Apr 9, 2025

1/4

Surprisingly bad.

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Nina Metz

Chicago Tribune

Apr 9, 2025

2.5/4

The show’s creator, Jonathan Tropper, has done something interesting with his star. There’s a frisson of recognition that happens when you put Hamm in a role like this.

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Tim Lowery

AV Club

Apr 4, 2025

C+

If you strip away the non-stop banter some of the coming-into-my-own dramatic arcs of side characters, and that aforementioned satirical underscoring, there is a pretty fun dark comedy bubbling under here.

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Rob Gonsalves

Rob's Movie Vault

Jul 23, 2007

B+

The actors are fine across the board, but the stand-out is Catherine Keener.

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Ronnie R

@Rickyrose Jul 28, 2026

Far below its potential

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Dawn C

@ChickenLady Jan 26, 2026

This movie made me want to take a shower to wash off the disgust I felt. I love dark comedy and this was not funny. Just awful.

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Alec B

@Alec97 Feb 27, 2024

LaBute can certainly write compelling monologues but that, along with his deep cynicism, often make you think he has something profound to say when it's all ultimate pretty juvenile.

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Joshua H

@RT44825951 Jan 30, 2024

Interesting fact: this was the first movie to be reviewed on this site, i'm writing this review just to say that.

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Jan 10, 2021

Not so bad, but it could be better. Игрокам растянутого мшзеца: отправляйтесь в Сиэтл. На участке Aurora Ave North между N50st и N59st есть ОНИ. Рядом с отелем ОНИ есть число, которое подскажет дом, рядом с которым скульптура персонажа.

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Fong Kok Hoong F

@RT29722865 Jul 17, 2016

A raunchy comedy about the sexual politics and gender warfare that shocks, repels and challenges our acceptance level of indecency with only scathingly-written dialogue, very little sex and no nudity.

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Synopsis

Restless and unhappy, two couples get caught up in infidelity and deception. Barry (Aaron Eckhart) is a sullen businessman married to Mary (Amy Brenneman), a writer who is unsatisfied with their relationship. Mary begins an affair with Jerry (Ben Stiller), a smug theater professor and husband of her friend, Terri (Catherine Keener), who is also a writer. Adding to the adulterous mix are Cary (Jason Patric), a callous doctor, and Cheri (Nastassja Kinski), an art-gallery assistant.

Director: Neil LaBute
Producer: Jason Patric, Steve Golin
Distributor: Gramercy Pictures
Production Co: Propaganda Films, PolyGram Filmed Entertainment
Rating: R
Genre: Comedy, Drama, LGBTQ+
Original Language: English
Release Date (Theaters): Aug 19, 1998, Original
Release Date (Streaming): Apr 19, 2016
Box Office (Gross USA): $4.7M
Runtime: 1h 39m
Sound Mix: Surround, Dolby Digital, Dolby
Aspect Ratio: Scope (2.35:1)

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